1. a person or thing that lies outside. 2. a part of a formation left detached through the removal of surrounding parts by erosion.

Wednesday, December 5, 2007

family filler


TIS THE SEASON for challenging issues of family, home, religious fervor recurrent, perennial struggles of my existence. having chosen divergent paths from a young age from siblings and a parent's intended path, its difficult to feel closeness when worldviews are so diametrically opposite and opposed -- one coping mechanism was to recognize 'family' as the social construct it is , societally formulated, culturally specific and determined, biologically indeterminate. and yet we do on some level share much, immigrant experiences hoisted upon 'us' - we approached the matter, the questions differently/similarly and in some cases, in dichotomously oppositional, antagonistic ways. Confounded by familial love, learning to accept differences can be challenging, Tis the season to get the fuck away (as I have the last 7 years), merry x-mas!

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